Giving Thanks and Celebrating the Holiday's with an aging loved with Alzheimer's/Dementia

    Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to share with family and friends and give thanks for the gifts we have been given.  So often we loose sight of all we have been given because of the stress of our busy lives and challenging life situations.  If you are among the thousands of New Hampshire families caring for an aging loved one, or lending a hand to a neighbor with Alzheimer's/Dementia, you are all to familiar with the rewarding and often frustating challenges of getting through the confusion of the holiday's.        

Although there are different stages of Alzheimer's/Dementia a person may experience, providing a meaningful experience is achievable and an important part of maintaining a person's dignity.  Because overstimulation and confusion is common when you are looking through the eyes of someone with demtia, following these helpful tips will help ensure Thanksgiving is a meaningful and thankful gathering.

• Be mindful of how your loved/friend is feeling (the bigger the gathering the more confusing)
• Have your loved one/friend assist with prep work. Give one step at a time
• Address holiday guests by name as they arrive and during discussion so your loved one remembers who they are
• Share family holiday memories through pictures and discussion; don't ask the person if they remember; let them share what comes to mind and validate
• Recognize when your loved one/friend is tired; allow them to go to a quiet area of the house and rest

Enjoy your Thanksgiving-Happy Thanksgiving!